In my world, power is not shared. It’s not up for discussion. It is Mine! That’s why, it is always the submissive who must prove themselves!

No. And if you think it is, you’ve already misunderstood everything. Getting turned on by commands isn’t submission -  it’s arousal. Let's not make it a crime, but don’t call it what it’s not. 

The most common and infuriating mistakes subs make: - zero efford - skipping reading - trying to negotiate