+ Manual: how to approach (ANY) Domme

QUEEN Karin
Apr 6
2 min read

Updated: Apr 7

This Manual Will Change Your Entire 𝒦𝒾𝓃𝓀 Experience

You can thank me later.

My Requirements for New Subs Are Simple:

Long-term dynamic only.
Built on mutual respect.
Obedience is expected - no exceptions.

So tell me, why do so many of you show up in my DMs trying to negotiate rules I’ve set over years? What exactly makes you think you’re the exception?

Do you even understand the position you’re applying for?

STEP - BY - STEP MANUAL!

WRONG: You open my profile and go straight to the photos.

✅ INSTEAD: Start by reading my profile - crafted over months to save your time and show if you're a match. Being sexy isn't even in my Top 5 Domme traits.

WRONG: You skim two lines, then rush to my DMs.

✅ INSTEAD: Read the entire profile. Every section is important. If I don't see effort, you'll never hear from me again. That’s your one and only job—and you’re already failing.

WRONG: “But I’m from the US/Canada/Narnia...”

✅ INSTEAD: Don’t bring problems. Bring solutions. I clearly state when I’m online - use Google, check the time zones. If it works, come correct. If not, leave.

WRONG: “I’d love to serve you, but…”

I. Don’t. Care.

I don’t need to hear why you "don’t have time"
I don’t care if you "can’t afford it"
I don’t care if you "already have a Domme"
I don’t care if you "got scammed before"

I don’t know you. I don’t owe you anything. If you won’t follow my rules, your existence will remain irrelevant to me. Simple.

WRONG: You suggest kinks I haven’t even listed.

✅ Leave. You're already showing you're a problem. I don’t want that energy anywhere near me.

HOW DO I KNOW YOU ARE REAL?

You don’t. But here’s what you can check:

Fully verified Fetlife with history
Website
Discord
Testimonials

Still not enough? Got more “concerns” which you would like to talk about? Leave. You’re looking for excuses. And I don’t do excuses.

NOTE FOR ALL SUBS:

This isn't just me. Many Dommes feel the same. We all have different styles - but we ALL expect respectful behavior from the very first second.

If you can’t follow a Domme’s rules? Fine. She’s not for you. Leave her alone and move on.

🧠 FINAL REMINDER:

No Domme is waiting for your “you’re so sexy” message.

You’re not the one who gets to evaluate us.
Your opinion means nothing.
We’re well aware of our appeal - we don’t need confirmation from a useless sub.

So... Let’s try this again, shall we?

Looking for obedient, respectful, EU-based subs.

I build dynamics on mutual respect and expect effort from the start.